lol... It seems I'm lacking some requisite knowledge
I started watching a vid about this
and dude was like
"Tritone substitution is... a Jazz chord substitution theory"
I don't know anything about jazz
and then he said I need some understanding of
Functioning Dominant
Altered scale
Altered harmony
"...or this probably won't make any sense at all."
I was like
"ah I'll just watch while I eat dinner anyway"
nope. dude is right... I'm completely lost.