As for arthritis preventing playing -- take a look at Keith Richards hands, http://www.ronankavanagh.ie/musicians-health/learning-from-keith-richards-fingers-why-musicians-get-sore/
See a doctor. Try to find an MD, therapist and/or guitar teacher familiar with arthritis and musicians. Get a diagnosis and a plan to keep playing if that's your desire.
"It takes a lot of devotion and work, or maybe I should say play, because if you love it, that's what it amounts to. I haven't found any shortcuts, and I've been looking for a long time."
-- Chet Atkins
-- Chet Atkins