1st- There is no right way, it's mainly a matter of choosing a way that is right with you and go on practicing and building a fine personal technique.
2nd- But 'till now I've been holding the pick with little consistency, mainly with the tips of my thumb and index fingers, and now I've found that holding it with the thumb and the index finger bent towards the palm of my hand and the other fingers closed (as a fist) it feels quite more controlled.
3rd- Should this right hand be anchored in some way? I used to put the fifth finger below the first string.
Any tip? Thanks.
J